The Pacifier

We have been told many many times the pacifier could solve the problems of a fussy baby...I don't believe this but there is some pressure from the relatives who have experience in "bottle babies"...

We have deliberately delayed the introduction of pacifiers to DS - to avoid nipple confusion - until 6 weeks (as recommended by some lactation consultants who really support breastfeeding) when proper latching-on has been established...

but...after several attempts...

...DS doesn't like the dummy at all - just blow it away.


I don't mind this - as research has shown that the pacifier is associated with early weaning of breastmilk. I don't want this.

DW, you've made it!

To improve breastfeeding skill, DW sought help from a La Leche League leader, Sarah Hung. She was so kind to invite us to go to her house and practise. Thank you, Sarah.

We discussed about attachment parenting, co-sleeping, etc.

I don't worry this would "spoil" the baby as what many people believe. I consider this the best way for a child to develop hsr sense of security, trust and the capacity to love.

Although I had found tons of information about breastfeeding on the internet for DW, she was still not confident enough about her self-learning skills. Also I wanted to know whether better latch-on could be attained to reduce sore nipples and feeding time, especially when DW was feeding on her right breast or lying down position, so I encouraged her to consult. Because her previous skills were not bad (better than what some nurses have taught I think ;-P ), she made it after receiving just some guidance. She was so happy.

On Vaccination

DS was having a fever after a vaccination. We were worried.

There are controversies surrounding the safety and /real/ benefits of vaccines. I am thinking whether to let DS risk adverse reactions again.

Feels complete when wearing DS.